Pursuing and Becoming Part 2

Discussion Questions:

1. Read Proverbs 31:17-25 together as a group. What stands out as you read through this section of Scripture?

2. As you see the qualities of this woman in this section of the text, guys discuss why these qualities are so vital to pursuing in a wife. Girls, discuss why these qualities are so important to have as you think about who you want to become.

3. Read verse 21 again as a group. We discussed how winter seasons represent spiritually tough times in our lives. This passage speaks to how this wife has prepared the family for this. Kaleb said we can’t help someone else prepare for something that we ourselves haven’t gotten prepared for. We prepare ourselves by being in the Word, in prayer, and in church community. Why is it so important to bring a prepared version of yourself into a relationship? What would be the struggles of failing to bring a prepared version of yourself into a relationship?

4. We are focusing in on pursuing this woman in Proverbs 31 and becoming this woman as well.
- Guys, what are you doing in your life to become a man deserving of a godly woman as described in the text? How do you keep your eyes and hearts focused on the woman described in Proverbs 31 and not something else that the world might put in front of you?

- Girls, what are you doing in your life to become like the woman described in this text? Also, what standards have you set in your life relationally so that you don’t settle for anything less than a man walking with the Lord?